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How to Calm the Nervous System

The Power of Breath

By Shawna Martin

One of the most underrated tools we have for calming the body is something we do every moment of the day—breathing. Most of the time, we don’t notice it. It just happens in the background. But the way we breathe tells our nervous system what kind of state we’re in.

When breathing is quick and shallow, the body hears: “We’re not safe, stay on guard.” It’s the same signal that gets activated when we’re stressed, anxious, or bracing for something. On the other hand, when we slow down and breathe deeply, the body hears a very different message: “It’s safe to relax.”

This shift is important. Our nervous system has two main gears: one for getting us ready to act and the other for helping us relax, restore, and settle. When life keeps us in “go mode” for too long, even small stressors can feel overwhelming. But the breath is always available to help us switch gears.

You don’t need a big routine or a special setting. Just a few minutes can make a real difference. Try letting your exhale last a little longer than your inhale. Or pause gently at the top of your breath by slightly holding it before you exhale. Even placing a hand on your belly and noticing the rise and fall of each breath can help shift you into a calmer state.

The beauty of using the breath this way is that it fits into daily life. You can do it while sitting at your desk, waiting in the car, or lying in bed at the end of the day. Each time you slow your breathing, you’re giving your nervous system permission to step back from the noise and find balance.

Breath is more than just air moving in and out. It’s a direct line between the body and mind. Sometimes a few deep breaths are all it takes to remind ourselves we’re safe, steady, and present.

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Shawna Martin
MSW, RSW · Registered Social Worker & Psychotherapist
Registered Social Worker and Psychotherapist with 30 years of clinical experience in trauma, grief, PTSD, and perinatal mental health.
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